Saturday, May 15, 2010

England and back


For the last four months Aubrey has been planning her trip to England. She started talking to the family at the end of January. She bought her plane ticket the beginning of February and has been planning her life accordingly. She said her goodbyes to her family and friends, packed her suitcases and her room because we are moving in a few months and I didn't want to do it. She was sad to leave but so excited for a new adventure in a different country for the rest of the year.
We took her to the airport Wednesday afternoon and all said our goodbyes through tears.I knew she would land in London Heathrow at about 5 am our time. I got a call from her at 6 am and this is what she said " Mom I am trying really hard not to cry but immigration will not let me through. They have searched all my suitcases. They have gone through all my personal items including my journal and read some of my most cherished letters. They tell me that my story is sending up red flags and they are going to give me a formal interview. I have already been sitting here for over an hour."
I am frantic. Both Jonathan and I start calling trying to figure out exactly where she is and what the problem is. Well, we find out that the UK has a law against Au Pairs coming into England from the United States. It is very specific to Americans. The family she was going to stay with did not know the law. They had 2 nannies previously that were both European. After the family she was staying with talked to immigration and we talked to immigration they still decided to send her home. It's the law.
The worst part about it was they treated her as if she were a criminal. They would not allow her any of her belongings. She had a horrific headache and only gave her medicine after Jonathan called 2 different times and yelled at them to give her some aspirin. She had to stay in this small room and couldn't leave. She was in London and could not see anything.She had to sleep in chairs.
They booked her a flight for the next day at 10:00 am London time which is 3 am our time. But, they still would not allow her to have any of her things. They gave it all to the flight attendant including her passport.
When she arrived at JFK she had to be escorted off the plane. But, when she got to customs they asked her why she was back so soon and she told them of her story. With the biggest grin and a very heavy New York accent the man said "welcome home!" Aubrey's response to that was " I love America.. I love Americans!!"
While I am glad she is home safe and sound, my heart hurts for her. She really has been devastated by the whole experience. She has spent so much time and money into making this happen and it didn't. I just hope to hurry and find her a job so she can put her mind on other things.

7 comments:

Keri said...

That's quite traumatic! Although it's disappointing for her that it didn't work out, I'm glad she made it safely back home.

Vanessa said...

Oh Melanie that is awful! What a sad day for her and you both!

Bond Fam said...

So sad :( I hope she starts feeling better very soon and that she finds something very exciting and fullfilling to spend her time on, knowing Aubrey it won't take her long :)

Mel and Angus said...

I was sorry to hear that happened to Aubrey. We were looking forward to seeing her. Hopefully she won't be too soured by the experience to not want to travel again. What can I say, the UK does not make anything easy - ever!

Unknown said...

That's horrible. I wonder what their problem with Americans is. That seems really odd to me.

Rick...the meek and mild said...

I have heard stories of other countries that treat you with even less civility than this. Sorry to hear of the disappointment but am glad to say it could have been an even sadder story had it happened elsewhere.

Lori Buhr said...

It sounds like she landed in France instead of England. What a group of meanies! Glad she is home safe.